Relationship! This is not just a word but a responsibility to be shared between two people. At a young age, all of you must have thought that relationship is a very easy thing to handle. But after being in any relationship you must have faced a lot of difficulties. It is nothing like a romantic movie or a novel in which you have fallen in love and all that violin playing in the background and romantic candle night dinners. In reality, a relationship requires a lot of compromises, understanding, patience, sacrifices and many more things. We bring you some of the rules which people usually ignore. Following these rules will surely improve your relationship.
Be honest always
The first rule for each and every relationship is honesty. You should be honest with your partner. Trust is the strongest building block of any relationship.
Compromising for maintaining a balance in your relationship is a very important thing. If you only want to compromise for yourself then you should simply stay solo. Being in a relationship means sacrificing some little things, emotions or feelings every now and then.
Little Arguments are important
Little arguments or you can say pouring your hearts out in front of your partner is important. But arguments does not mean killing each other. 😉 A little argument…You know!;)
Be cautious when you are discussing your relationship with your friend
It is always healthier to discuss your relationship with your best friend but you should be cautious. If you are sharing every problem or every argument of yours with your friend then you must be probably poisoning your friend against your partner.
Always trust your instincts
According to a study, it was proved that 9 out of 10 times your instincts are correct. You should listen to your instincts and should discuss it with your partner as well.
No one is perfect
If you will keep finding the perfect person then, believe me, you will be alone forever. Focus on finding the right person instead of finding a perfect person. No one is perfect in this world and you should understand this fact.
Always split the bills
It might seem bit irrelevant but it is one of the important points which can help in building the relationship and it is often ignored. The relationship is between two people, efforts of both are needed so why not bills? You should take care of spending almost equal money whenever needed.
Must follow Hurry Buns Airport Rule
This is the most important rule in your relationship It will surely make it strong. Do not stop doing the things that you used to do at the beginning of your relationship. If you used to send her morning and night text in the beginning then keep doing it. It is horrible when your partner feels like “Why don’t you do ______anymore”?. Never let your partner feel this.
If you are not getting something you need, ask for it
Sometimes your partner does not know what you need or what you like. It is quite obvious sometimes. At that time it is your responsibility and right to ask for what you need.
Value each other’s interests
It might be possible that you love vintage planes and your partner love nail arts. Make sure you respect and value each other’s interest with full attention and care. It is one of the most important points to be followed in any relationship.
Take all advice with a grain of salt
In your relationship, you will find many people who will be giving you advice. But remember only you and your partner know your relationship. So you can listen to everyone, if necessary but you should do what is best for both of you guys.
Understand each other’s background
You should understand the things that have happened in your partner’s past. Maybe she had some dreadful experiences in past or maybe he had faced a very horrible situation in his past. You should never bring that background while arguing in your relationship. Remember, everyone has to face a lot of things in their lives.
Don’t try to fix the person you love
This is one of the mistakes most of the people try to do in their relationship. See, we can’t change or fix anyone. The only thing we can do is to help them fix themselves. If you will keep trying to change the person, you will surely ruin your relationship. So, just hang on with them in every situation.
No one else will understand your relationship
It is your relationship and you two are the only people who can understand it. And also, you can’t understand anyone else’s relationship.
These are some of the things that are often ignored in a relationship but these things can add charm to your life and will surely make your relationship strong and ever-lasting. You can share your views in the comments section.